Being Invisible Has It's Perks

I have few different thoughts after reading this article.  One is that for some reason I never felt hugely visible when I was younger so losing that kind of attention (that I was aware of) - didn't phase me. But immediately contradicting myself - during the years of 18-40 my "flaws" were so visible to me that I thought they were so visible to others.  So I did think people saw. Now - I care so much less if or what people notice when the see me. Wisdom or giving up? Wisdom.

The Positive Side of Being an Invisible Woman

Next Avenue | Karen Sands

One of the biggest fears we have about aging is of becoming invisible, irrelevant to the world. Women, who are valued for their appearance first and foremost in our society, tend to feel this diminishment more acutely than men as they age.